Of All The Females In My life...

Hola compañeros!



A very Happy wala Holi to you! And a Strong, powerful and Happy Women's Day.


The world defines Women as a female human. Someone who's born to obey, to cook food, raise your kids and keep you content. Is that all? That's how you treat your sister, best friend or girlfriend. Because newsflash sweetheart! Your Dad did the same thing to your Mom. Feeling foiled? Obviously! Go, run around, yell for their rights. But stop, don't! Because you'll end up being the same man your ancestors were.


Yes, you're the best, unsurpassed, paramount, preeminent, superlative. We can say more in a sigh, than a man can say in a sermon. Your whole life is a history of affection. No matter what you look like, you're sexy if you're confident! Your most beautiful make-up is passion; cosmetics are cheaper to buy. You're to be loved, not understood. 
You're fabricated into an innocent daughter, a caring sister, a warm friend, a passionate beloved, a dedicated wife, a divine mother, a blessing grandmother. Hitherto, you're resilient, with a heart so tender, so naughty, so alluring, so sharing, so lyrical. 
You're a Woman. You're life.
These are some women, I thank Lord for having in my vivacity.  

Yes, it's my mother bitches! My best friend, My confidante, My soul and my reason to live, to do something. She's been my God, my hero, my greatest fan and my greatest critique. She makes me believe in me, she consoles me to be capable of things unimaginable. My painting, sketching, music, dancing; everything has been her endowment to me. She taught me that nobody will give me power, I'll have to take it. She's the sort of woman who lives for others - you can tell the other by their hunted expression. Her feminism is the radical notion, that women are humans.

My second best friend, my Godmother.
Her wit is a treasure, her witty beauty her power. She's strong..., and scary. She taught me to be rather happy, than dignified. 

Monika Singh Rattey a.k.a Chhota Singh.
Ten years, and nothing about US has changed. She taught me to love unconditionally, to be there, to help, to share, to laugh. Having a sister is like having a best friend you can't get rid of. You know whatever you do, they'll still be there. You can kid the world but not your sister. And I don't understand how do people make it without a sister? Sometimes it's better to be a sister than a superhero.

Unnati Sharma a.k.a Nunu. There's nothing more delightful than the realization of the existence of an elder sister. Sisterly love of all the relationships is most abstract. Nature doesn't grant it any functions. If people think I'm not a girl, meet her!

Himani Gu;ati a.k.a Himanititis a.k.a Laughter Queen.
Our roots say we're friends, our hearts say we're sisters. Another younger sibling, she taught me to be patient, to listen, to respond, to express. We don't need words for commuting; we've snarls and smiles, and frown and winks.


Oh and there's someone else too!


Ruhani Chopra a.k.a Ruhaaa a.k.a Chub chub a.k.a Ninty Minty a.k.a Fuzzkins a.k.a Honeybuns a.k.a Cuddly Wuddly a.k.a Pooh Bear a.k.a Tinkerbell a.k.a Gorgi Porgi a.k.a Rolly Polly a.k.a Rona Mona Lisa. Bas! Thak gayi! Tujhe nick-names hi itne saare diye hai! But! Like I had said on your birthday, you're one of my most treasured possessions, and one of the most prettiest woman I've come across. I completely see my 15-16 year old self in her. Out of everything I learnt from her she taught me to never grow up. 


These are the women who made me what I'm today! I'm tough, I'm ambitious....and I know exactly what I want. If that makes me a bitch, okay! 
This is just another day for me to tell these women I love them. Blah! I do it every single day. Celebrate them, celebrate yourself! Hold those important-than-life women and tell them what they mean. I just did. (I'm on house arrest till the boards get over so don't rant that I didn't hug you.)


See you fellas.
Till then, tener cuidado.